Women are nation builders but the Society we live in, the tradition we practice, the religion we believe in, the culture we hold on to and the customs of the people has placed a woman on the state of victim.
When Crisis breakout in a family, women are to be blamed, that’s when you will hear things like: since this woman entered into our family it has been one thing to another some family will even tag her a witch.
when marriage fails the blame goes to the woman. Childlessness is believed to be the fault of the woman. Most family believes that the death of a man is cause by his wife. In most cases family or man’s business failure or inability to succeed is the fault of the woman.
Women has been made to believe that she is always the cause of misfortune in her marriage, the man is tag the Mr all rightouse.
Women has been made to see and accept herself the way society wants her to be and not the way God created her and made her to be.
Hello women, do you know that you are created in the place of REST ? The Bible said in Genesis 2:21….. “and the lord caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and the Lord took one of his ribs,… In verse 22…” and the rib, which the lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, so women are not created out of crisis nor pain etc, I hereby encourage you women to stop seeing yourself as a mantle of agony or a crisis producer, stop seeing yourself as the way society sees you.
Society has no effect on man, a man can stay 100yrs with no wife, no child, no job…. And it’s seen as normal but to a woman is abnormal.
A man’s wife dies, within a month he remarries, It’s okay and widely accepted by the society but to women its the opposite of this believe.
A man has the right to have as much women as he can even as a married man and the society tags it ” polygamous” and its okay in the society.
In some society if a man is caught in adultery act, It’s not a crime .
A man divorces his wife, the next seconds he remarries, It’s cool.
A woman husband’s dies, she is subject to bath in the river, mourn her husband till decades Including shaving her hairs and don’t forget the hair is the pride of a woman.
now listen, if a woman is caught in adultery act, she’s back to her parents house and an everlasting tag placed on her.
If a woman’s marriage crashes, is a taboo, She has committed abomination A woman is subjected to one man, otherwise She’s tag a prostitute.
Women are sources of joy, favor and completion to a man. Remember the word of Adam which said.” This is the flesh of my flesh, bone of my bone” and the Bible says ” he that findeth a wife “woman”,findeth a good thing and obtaineth favor from the lord.
A Woman is a helper and not a laborer and shouldn’t be treated as a laborer. Man is meant to provide, protect and shield his wife and not the other way round.
Dear woman shake off those labels placed on you by society, tradition, religion etc and be what God created you to be.
You are not a victim rather you are a queen and should be treated and addressed as one.
in conclusion: Women are sources of joy, favor and completion to a man. Remember the word of Adam which said.” This is the flesh of my flesh, bone of my bone” and the Bible says ” he that findeth a wife “woman”,findeth a good thing and obtaineth favor from the lord.